Lan Ying is my familiar woman. At the age of 32, she was happy, her son Bowen was 4 and a half years old, handsome and smart.
Lan Ying never thought about Erbao, and felt that there was a blog post.Until that afternoon, Lan Ying went to the kindergarten to pick up Bowen home. On the road, Bowen asked her coldly. Mom, would you give me a younger brother or sister?
Lan Ying wanted to tease him, Shunkou said, yes, do you want your brother or sister?
Bo Wen suddenly pulled his little hand out of Lan Ying and said carefully, I don’t want anything, they are little devil.
Lan Ying froze and asked, why did you say that?
Bo Wen pursed his mouth: My brother and sister would grab my toys and chocolates. With them, my parents would not love me.
At that time, Lan Ying didn’t go to her heart, thinking that Bowen Xing may have heard a similar topic, so she was rejected by Erbao like many children, so I comforted Bowen: First, my mother did not intend to give you a younger brother or sister;In addition, the younger brother and sister are also cute, just like Bowen.
But after that, Bowen would ask Lan Ying the same question separately: Mom, will you give birth to Erbao?Then, without waiting for Lan Ying’s answer, he started to be angry.
"If you are born, I will be angry."
"If you are born, I will run away from home."
"If you are born with Erbao … I will throw him out."
Lan Ying realized that he would take this issue seriously.So that night, Lan Ying talked with Bo Wen carefully.
Lan Ying: Regardless of the two treasures and three treasures, we will love you as always.
Blog: Different, you will buy new clothes and toys for Erbao, but have delicious things, but those who are alone!
Lan Ying continues to explain that Erbao is also your relatives. He (she) will call your brother, and he will love you in the future …
Never!Bo Wen suddenly screamed. As long as you love me, I don’t want you to love him or her, and I will not love him or her!
Lan Ying was shocked. This wayward selfishness should not be a child’s nature!
At that moment, Lan Ying was both afraid and blame herself. She didn’t know if it was the nature of Bo Wen, or that these years, as their parents, only cared for guidance, making him like this.
What Lan Ying is more worried about is what he will look like after he grows up with such a mentality?Will he love others?Will he have love in his heart?
At that moment, Lan Ying decided to do one thing to revise Bo Wen’s deviation of love and affection.So she told her husband Li Qiao that we gave Bowen a younger brother or sister.
Lan Ying was really pregnant with Erbao.
After three months, the fetal position was stable, and Lan Ying talked with Bo Wen again.
My mother wants to tell you one thing.Lan Ying said.
Bo Wen looked at Lan Ying, and his expression was a little alert.
Lan Ying said, yes, her mother was pregnant.
Bowen’s little face flashed with panic and anger, turning and wanting to run.
Lan Ying held Bo Wen’s arm and took him in his arms, saying that it was an accident that his mother did not plan to want.
Lan Ying felt the little body of Bowen relaxed.
However, the doctor said that the mother’s body had a problem, and if the baby might be very dangerous if the baby was not required.
——This is Lan Ying and Li Qiao discuss a good statement, and give Bo a buffer.
Sure enough, Bo Wen stunned for a long time, and then asked carefully, will the mother die?
Lan Ying nodded, it is possible, anyway, it is very dangerous, so the mother wants to ask what to do.
A few seconds later, Bowen’s two little hands hugged Lan Ying, crying and crying, saying, "I don’t want my mother to die, my mother is not allowed to die …
Lan Ying’s heart was sour and felt sorry for him.But she knew she had to do that, and she had to let Bo Wen grow more love little by little.
Lan Ying gently rubbed Bo Wen’s hair and said, thanks to Bo Wen to love his mother, and want to make his mother live well.
Bo Wen no longer said, and buried his head in Lan Ying’s arms hard.
Lan Ying knew that Bowen was embarrassed, but between his mother’s safety and the two treasures, he chose the former.In the end, the child has a small natural soft in his heart.
Although Bo Wen accepted this incident, he still changed obviously, and he was less than in the past, and sometimes he looked at Lan Ying’s abdomen that was dazed.
On one occasion, Lan Ying pulled Bowen’s little hand to try to touch the fetal movement, but Bo Wen pulled away his hand, and the whole small body stepped back.He still rejected.
Lan Ying pretended not to understand, and immediately said, blog post, accompany her mother to organize your old clothes and old toys?
The emotions of Bowen immediately shifted, okay!
In the years when Bowen grew up, Lan Ying organized his clothes and toys with his children every other time, and then donated old things that were not applicable.Bowen likes to do this.
This time, a small box of full box was organized.Bowen’s little face asked, mother, mother, where did we donate this time?Still going to the post office?
Lan Ying shook his head with a smile. This time, we did n’t donate this time. We have to put it up and keep it.
Why?Bo Wen is curious.
Because … Lan Ying touched Bo Wen’s head and touched the bulging belly again. Let’s leave your little brother or younger sister.At that time, you don’t need to buy too many new clothes and toys. These are good. You can teach them how to play.
Bowen lowered his head, for a long time, the voice said very little, if he was a little sister, she only liked dolls and did not wear boys’ clothes. What should I do?
Lan Ying took the blog post and rubbed his hair again, and said, it doesn’t matter. When she grows up to wearing a skirt, we buy her again.Your little brother and sister, grow up a little bit, as if mom and dad watched you look up again, how happy!
Bowen didn’t say a word, and smashed his mouth and laughed.He blinked for a while, saying that if he was a sister, we should still buy a new clothes for her.This time, he said "we".Lan Ying’s heart was warm, and said, after she came, Bo Wen accompanied her mother to buy her.
Erbao came in winter, a pink and tender little girl.
On the night of returning home from the hospital, Lan Ying gently called Bowen to Erbao and said, Bo Wen, you give your sister a name!
Bowen looked at the pink baby in Lai Li, and was a little surprised -he had never seen such a small child.And Bo Wen believes that the name is a big thing, but I did not expect to give him to do it.
Then, Bo Wen tilted his head and said, let me think about it.
Lan Ying smiled with his husband, okay.
Bo Wen was very responsible for a dozen names, pink, beautiful sheep, and sheep, small, and pocket … In the end, Lan Ying chose to pocket.
Bo Wen was very excited. After asking several times, can she really call it?
right!Lan Ying told him certainly that you can participate in everything in the future. You are your brother. This is your rights and responsibilities.
This is the first time Lan Ying talked to his son about rights and responsibilities.At this time, the blog post is about to enter elementary school, and the thinking ability has increased significantly, and it is full of novelty and serious words about this weight.
After that, the first thing that Bowen returned home every day was to lie on the bed and watch.At this time, Lan Ying would guide Bo Wen to touch her sister’s cheek gently with her hands, and her hands and feet.
Once, Bowen just touched the little hand that had touched her pocket, and she suddenly grabbed Bowen’s fingers and went to the mouth.Bowen was frightened and pumped out, but immediately stopped and said, Mom, look at it, she bit me.
He also said that she had no teeth anyway.
Lan Ying laughed.
Pocketing, it seems that there is a natural dependence on Bowen, as long as you catch a finger in the blog post, you will not spread out.Sometimes when he cried and happened to be at home, Lan Ying asked him to coax.
In fact, every time he watched Bowen, he couldn’t take the territory to hold his pocket. Lan Ying held his heart and stared at him without blinking at a distance.ah.
Bo Wen complained that it was too difficult to coax every time, but every time, he would be patient with patience.
In the blink of an eye, he also reached the age of the kindergarten. It is cute, naughty, and especially likes to be entangled.On one occasion, he did not let Bo Wen work in his work, and he watched the cartoons together.Lan Ying was anxious and shouted with a throat. Bo Wen was immediately unwilling. He said seriously that mom, others said that girls were petting and could not noisy.Then, the nine -year -old Bowen and the drizzle told her three -year -old sister.Standing there and watching the soft love in Bo Wen’s eyes, Lan Ying was full of happiness.
She knows that the two children will grow up slowly, and although the chicken flying dog jumping in growth is inevitable, they will always love each other.Because, Lan Ying was the most baby gift for Bowen in Bo Wen.
This is also the best story I heard about the two treasures -let a child learn to love another, and start here, slowly grow more love from the heart, love more people, love love, loveLife and this world where we live.(Text 丨 Ningzi "Reading" Original)
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